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Search results for tag #adhd

[?]Justin Derrick » 🌐
@JustinDerrick@infosec.exchange

@jeffowski Yeah, the more stories I read under then hashtag, the more it explains several aspects of my childhood and the things I’ve struggled with for nearly 50 years. A therapist suggested I get tested if it was really bothering me, but it was over $1000 for the test & consultation.

When I pressed, they suggested that I’d never missed an appointment or exhibited other classic signs of ADHD. But when I think back, I realize I’d compensated by taking the entire morning off for a 1pm appointment, and arrived 30 minutes early out of fear of being late.

    [?]Metin Seven » 🌐
    @metin@graphics.social

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    [?]Church of Jeff » 🌐
    @jeffowski@mastodon.world

    A Threads post by rebuildfocus:
"Overheard some gen z kids say, "no way undiagnosed ADHD adults just white-knuckled through school with zero accommodations."   
Oh, kids. We didn't just get through it. We built an entire personality around masking it, got called "so smart but lazy" by every teacher we had, and found out what executive dysfunction even was at 34."

    Alt...A Threads post by rebuildfocus: "Overheard some gen z kids say, "no way undiagnosed ADHD adults just white-knuckled through school with zero accommodations." Oh, kids. We didn't just get through it. We built an entire personality around masking it, got called "so smart but lazy" by every teacher we had, and found out what executive dysfunction even was at 34."

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      [?]AvonLovesBlake [She/Her] » 🌐
      @Lilysea@aus.social

      A pie chart

ADHD: Why I interrupt people

Say it now or it's gone forever!
Your story reminded me of 8 other things
Random interesting things
I thought it was my turn

      Alt...A pie chart ADHD: Why I interrupt people Say it now or it's gone forever! Your story reminded me of 8 other things Random interesting things I thought it was my turn

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        [?]ajuvo ✔ » 🌐
        @ajuvo@chaos.social

        im November gibt's nen Neurodiversitätskongress

        online und mit Open days

        planetpsy.de/neurodiversitaets

          [?]Inveterate Docsplainer » 🌐
          @LowlyAdjunct@mastodon.social

          Are you ADHD? Constantly banging on about what a screwup you are? Well, you aren't.

          Try this: Make a list of all the adulting you do in a day and it will blow your mind. We just tend to focus on what we didn't do, or the little part of something that went wrong, and forget the rest.

          Depressed people do, too, so this trick works for that as well.

          Save it, somewhere you can see it when you need it. The list I made just now has 27 items on it, and it was definitely an eye-opener.

            [?]Lee C » 🌐
            @LJClements8@universeodon.com

            Does anyone else find when they're really exhausted/fatigued their ADHD sometimes goes into overdrive? Like constant racing thoughts? It's so unhelpful 😔

              [?]tove [she/they] » 🌐
              @tove@social.tovelago.se

              tip for getting things done when autistic or if you have adhd [SENSITIVE CONTENT]

              I have for some time struggled quite a bit with getting work actually done to the point I worried about staying employed. While waiting on getting a time for adhd evaluation (queue is a few years..) I've met with an occupational therapist who had some tips and some assistive devices and seems to have maybe not solved things but made it manageable.

              The trick that did it for me? A little whiteboard I can have a todo list on that sits right next to my computer screen and a very easy-to-use timer (you just twist the thing in the middle and it starts). Having an easily accessible todo list always visible out of the corner of my eye is amazing, honestly. And when you start on the next thing, twisting that timer up to an hour (or less) makes sure there is a limit to how long you work on the thing. It doesn't matter if you manage to finish it, that's a future problem don't think about it, what matters is you sit down and do something for a limited time. (Adding time limits to todos specifically can also be very helpful.) It makes the task seem more manageable for neurospicy brains. (Also, get up and stretch every time the timer goes off, it's good for you!)

              Now there is one huuuge downside to this thing. Well two. If you can't get a lender for free from your healthcare system, the original Time Timer is like €50 and I think the whiteboard was an additional €25. Not worth it, honestly. I have seen cheaper knockoffs on amazon so if you want one get one of those maybe?

              The second is that when you turn off the alarm-sound on it I, at least, will often not notice when the time's up, which defeats a large part of the purpose of it. But if you have the alarm on, it's so load and shrill it's actually painful to my ears and probably a lot of other senses-sensitive people out there, who are largely the target audience. They did a bit of an oopsie in the design there.. At least it makes no other noise?

              (Also, I'm hoping to build my own version of the timer, one that's digital (though probably still with a circle graphic, at least as an option) and the last parts I need to start working up a prototype should arrive any minute! ^^)

              #autism #adhd

              Photo of a little whiteboard (about 20x20cm) with an analogue timer stuck into it in the lower right corner. The whiteboard is full of a todo list with some things completed and some things not. The timer goes from 0 to 60 (minutes) and you get a visual of how much is left. When you turn the timer up towards the max of 60min the part of the time that's left until the time's up becomes red, which decreases as the timer ticks down. (It doesn't actually tick, completely silent)

              Alt...Photo of a little whiteboard (about 20x20cm) with an analogue timer stuck into it in the lower right corner. The whiteboard is full of a todo list with some things completed and some things not. The timer goes from 0 to 60 (minutes) and you get a visual of how much is left. When you turn the timer up towards the max of 60min the part of the time that's left until the time's up becomes red, which decreases as the timer ticks down. (It doesn't actually tick, completely silent)

                [?]Neurodiversity in Infosec » 🌐
                @neurodiversity@infosec.exchange

                "We can't afford accommodations."

                Most of them cost $0.

                Employers who contacted the Job Network reported:
                - 61% cost nothing
                - 33% were one-time, median $300
                - 6% had an ongoing cost

                We're talking headphones. Written follow-ups after meetings. Moving someone's desk away from the printer.

                Your bill has bigger rounding errors.

                Source: , Costs and Benefits of Accommodation
                askjan.org/topics/costs.cfm

                  [?]Neurodiversity in Infosec » 🌐
                  @neurodiversity@infosec.exchange

                  Most workplace accommodations cost nothing. Asking for one is the hard part.

                  This account is here to help with that.

                  I'm @Xavier, after 30+ years in I'm turning my BSides Atlanta talk "Performing Normal" into bite-sized, sourced posts: the research, the myths, and exactly how to ask for what you need. I plan on keeping the research and recommendations going well after I publish my current content.

                  Are you like me? Follow along, and boost to help it travel.

                    [?]Jokinen Pipa » 🌐
                    @pipanella_56@mementomori.social

                    Ja olipahan sellainen psykiatri tuolla että meikäläisen AuDHD sappi alkoi kiehua ja mieleeni tulvi väkivaltaisia ajatuksia.. 🤬

                    Sen silmät, hyi! Kaikinpuolin pelottava tyyppi, vaikutti ihan psykopaatilta joka nauttii muiden kärsimyksistä, psykiatrian erikoislääkäri Johan Bengtsson.

                    Vaikutti myös jollakinlailla yksinkertaiselta.

                    Osa psykiatreistahan on psykopaatteja. Välillä niistä paljastuu murhaajia. Ammatti varmaan kiehtookin psykopaatteja. Siinä saa täyden vallan toisesta ihmisestä.

                    Ilman sitä hyypiötä ohjelmaa olisi ollut ihan mukava katsella kun siellä oli nepsy-vertaisia, jotka puhuivat ylivilkkaudesta, stressiherkkyydestä, keskittymisvaikeuksista, unotelusta, hajamielisyydestä..

                    areena.yle.fi/1-78345416

                      [?]Miakoda :neurodiversity: [she/her] » 🌐
                      @hellomiakoda@pdx.social

                      I am so fucking tired of . I took a battery from one camera to see if it was cross compatible with my other camera. It wasn't. So I immediately went to put it back with it's correct camera... and it's gone some how. I've torn apart my surroundings and have not found it. I hate this. I hate this so fucking much, I haven't gone anywhere. I didn't eject the battery and chuck it across the room at random. So how the actual fuck is it gone?!?!

                        [?]Fouzan_INTEL » 🌐
                        @intelgraphy@infosec.exchange

                        My throat is stunted while my ears are sensitized. Cannot speak out while others are speaking out against me.

                          [?]PatternChaser » 🌐
                          @PatternChaser@mas.to

                          Do autists have a bottom-up thinking style? I don't think I do. I don't do top-down either, I do both, where appropriate, and 'middle-out' thinking too. I couldn't've been a successful software designer otherwise.





                            [?]Xavier Ashe :donor: » 🌐
                            @Xavier@infosec.exchange

                            I did a talk yesterday at @bsidesatl. Here are the resources I shared with them:

                            Job Accommodation Network (JAN) — free, confidential, real people. askjan.org/ · (800) 526-7234
                            JAN sample request letters (the one from the talk; names no diagnosis) — askjan.org/articles/Sample-Lan
                            Your state vocational rehab agency — keeping your job and moving up both count. Georgia: GVRA gvs.georgia.gov/ · 1-844-367-4872
                            Mental Health Hackers — quiet spaces at security cons mentalhealthhackers.org/

                            Know your own profile (free)
                            Monotropism Questionnaire — monotropism.org/
                            CAT-Q (masking) — embrace-autism.com/cat-q
                            VIA Character Strengths — viacharacter.org/
                            Write a "working with me" doc. Model: UK Civil Service Workplace Adjustment Passport

                            Asking & if it goes wrong
                            JAN: Alternatives to Telework — askjan.org/articles/Finding-Al
                            JAN: Dos & Don'ts of Disclosure — askjan.org/articles/Dos-and-Do
                            JAN: Request Denied, What Now? — askjan.org/publications/consul
                            EEOC filing time limits — eeoc.gov/time-limits-filing-ch

                            Five books
                            Explaining Humans — Camilla Pang
                            Unmasking Autism — Devon Price
                            How to — Jessica McCabe
                            Neurodiversity at Work — Theo Smith & Amanda Kirby
                            Is This ? — Henderson, Wayland & White

                            Just remember: You don't have to be exceptional to deserve a quiet room.

                              [?]BrainJoos » 🌐
                              @brainjoos@mstdn.wopr.systems

                              Stop trying to decode your partner's silence. Just ask: 'Do you need space or do you want a snack?' Specificity is kindness.

                              It’s not a mystery, it’s a menu.

                              brainjoos.com/?utm_campaign=me

                              Stop trying to decode your partner's silence. Just ask: 'Do you need space or do you want a snack?' Specificity is kindness.

                              Alt...Stop trying to decode your partner's silence. Just ask: 'Do you need space or do you want a snack?' Specificity is kindness.

                                [?]Fouzan_INTEL » 🌐
                                @intelgraphy@infosec.exchange

                                With rejection sensitivity, every mistake in anything feels like an ass whooping from my mother.

                                  [?]BrainJoos » 🌐
                                  @brainjoos@mstdn.wopr.systems

                                  You don't have to sit still to be present. Walking meditation, stretching, or pacing while breathing works just as well. Your body isn't the enemy of your focus, it's part of it.

                                  That's exactly the kind of flexible routine BrainJoos was built to track, so you can see which movement actually calms your brain down.

                                  brainjoos.com/?utm_campaign=me

                                  You don't have to sit still to be present. Walking meditation, stretching, or pacing while breathing works just as well. Your body isn't the enemy of your focus, it's part of it.

                                  Alt...You don't have to sit still to be present. Walking meditation, stretching, or pacing while breathing works just as well. Your body isn't the enemy of your focus, it's part of it.

                                    [?]Omega_Scribet » 🌐
                                    @Omega_Scribet@mementomori.social

                                    'ADHD zorgt voor 50% meer darmproblemen'

                                    "Mensen met ADHD hebben vaker maag- en darmklachten dan mensen zonder ADHD. Dat blijkt uit een grote analyse van ruim 1,9 miljoen deelnemers. Het verband geldt voor uiteenlopende problemen, waaronder verstopping, buikpijn en het prikkelbaredarmsyndroom. Waarom deze klachten vaker samengaan, is nog onduidelijk."

                                    "Voor alle onderzochte maag- en darmklachten vonden de onderzoekers een verband met ADHD. Bij verstopping waren de odds bijna twee keer zo hoog. Voor het prikkelbaredarmsyndroom lagen ze 58% hoger. Bij ongewild ontlastingsverlies waren ze zelfs ruim vier keer zo hoog.

                                    Ook andere klachten kwamen vaker voor. Bij dyspepsie, oftewel spijsverteringsklachten, waren de odds 52% hoger en bij buikpijn 88%. Voor diarree lagen ze ruim twee keer zo hoog."

                                    medischdossier.org/adhd-zorgt-