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I asked a professional #organizer how to stop the #ADHD clutter shame spiral | Sorry, I Missed This #Uderstood
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6u6aWaaSiu0
#makeShitMonday, crochet edition, in which I have a socially acceptable fidget toy...
@mbroome and I are taking a weeklong vertical cave rescue class, and it has been a looooong time since I tried to cram this much information into my head this fast. Fortunately one of the course leaders is a teacher as her day job and understands ADHD, so she's totally okay with me crocheting my way through the classroom instruction.
We're three days in, and I've already finished the hat for my BIL and gotten a good start on the [crochet lace shrug](https://www.ilikecrochet.com/magazine/crochet-shawl-patterns/jade-vines-crochet-shrug/) I'm making with the nice cashmere yarn I got on super sale!
This shrug pattern is *perfect* for classroom #ADHD management - simple stitch, no finicky counting, just cluster into the chain-2 space over and over until I run out of yarn... 🥰 It's so much easier to concentrate on the lecture material when my hands are occupied! I even managed a halfway-decent Russian splice, from memory, when I ran into a break in the yarn.
Hey y’all, does anyone know any tips for treating #adhd ticks? I get involuntary eye and head movements when I’m sitting still or driving and it’s starting to become a pain in my ass. They started becoming a lot more noticeable when I turned 21/22. Before it was mostly restless hands or foot tapping.
I haven’t had access to my meds cause fully out of stock in my country.
They do ease up when I am exercising, skating, or doing something with my hands and mind.
I HATE THIS and I wanna cry
I cannot keep up.
I can take my meds, or I can eat.
I can eat, or I can shower.
I can wash my face, or I can brush my teeth.
I can shave my head, or I can wash my face.
I can do my laundry, or I can take the trash out of my room.
I can go for a walk, or do either laundry or tidying.
I can STOP to take my PRN Adderall, or I can push through and force myself to focus on work. Even if the Adderall would help, even if I'm staring at the computer spinning my mental wheels with nothing but static, I somehow can't allow myself to just STOP AND TAKE THE PILL.
I can't take my birth control pill (which I need to manage PMDD) at the same time every day because it triggers my PDA.
I can either shower or make & eat breakfast.
It just… I can never tick off ALL the boxes in one day so I'm ALWAYS behind.
I don’t have all the answers yet. Diagnosis is still preliminary (Asperger's mentioned, AuDHD suspected).
But I’m starting to accept that my brain will probably always do this dance.
What’s helping a bit:
- Fewer tools (I'm trying to kill half of them)
- Accepting that "good enough" is better than “perfect but abandoned”
- Writing things down immediately instead of trusting my memory
If you're also stuck in the endless app-switching hell… you're not broken. Your brain just needs different rules.
Would love to hear how other people handle this.
#AuDHD #ADHD #ExecutiveDysfunction #Neurodivergent #Blog #Thoughts #Productivity #MentalHealth #Fediverse
@Drude Thanks for sharing your thoughts, that's a really interesting approach.
I can relate to that, it's pretty similar to how I operate. I can compare it to how I handle some of my projects.
I've noticed that if I say, for example, that I worked on a website for 10 months, it usually means I worked on it for the first 3 days while in hyperfocus, and then 9 months later, another 3 evenings of hyperfocus, with a nearly 9-month break in between.
I can't do things consistently and gradually, bit by bit, day after day.
I either dive in completely and don't see the light of day for a couple of days or weeks, or I don't touch it at all.
It's pretty exhausting, but I just don't know how to keep that interest going on a daily basis.
@autistics
Announcement: #Voxelibre multiplayer casual game today (Sat) for 4 hours in the late afternoon to evening (North America). That's in about 6 hours from now. There's talk this week of building a "Welcome Center" at the default "spawn point". Please help is build it.
Myself, I'd like one about the size of two Burger Kings, one stacked on top of the other, adorned with fancily crafted things. A deck could circumscribe the transition between the first and second floor, then an open rooftop with railings, ensconcements, etc. Having said this, I'm open to ideas. If you have any architectural ideas that don't involve male genitalia, I'd like to hear about them.
Voxelibre is a free and #OpenSource #Minecraft clone. More details here: https://docs.autis.toque.im/
Damage has been turned off. People with #Autism, #ADHD or #AuDHD are invited.
So no, there is no "#ADHD epidemic" or some bs, but content is made to fry peoples' brains...
Like even the most #ADHD person I know wants to sit down and just enjoy good content and not just have background noise...
- Cuz that can be stimulating enough.
But then again #Netflix and others just want to have brainfried paypigs that never cancel their subscription so they can just pocket the subscription money...
Folks with #ADHD... what's your retry/failure rate when it comes to making tea? On average, how many times do you have reheat the water? Or number of mugs that went cold with the tea bag still in them.
I love tea, but it's so hard to make for me!!
I offer 20% off at my Etsy shop for all folks who find me through Mastodon. Code: MASTO20
https://brittbuilds3d.etsy.com
When you use the code, I'll also add a small extra fidget to your order as a thank you for your support. 
You don't have to disclose who you are if you don't want to!
When I see the code on the order, I'll know how you found me.
Here are a few examples of the custom fidget toys I craft for my store:
#ADHD #Autistic #AUDHD #SmallBusiness #Etsy #BrittBuilds3D #3DPrinting #Queer #Disabled
My business is Canadian
, neurodiversity-friendly
, and owned by a queer, disabled human. 
Context switching galore, your hypercurious mind is drawn to even the smallest details, your attention is all over the place, with too many mental tabs open.
Everything, everywhere, and all at once.
What's your go-to method for recalibrating yourself and getting out of this loop?
#neurodivergence #adhd #adhs #autism #mentaltools #mentalhealth