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[?]Buttered Jorts » 🌐
@ajn142@infosec.exchange

I am now procrasticleaning, where i clean everything except the one thing i said I'd do.

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    [?]✨ Mia’s Simulacrum 🏳️‍⚧️✨ [she/her (the most biological woman you will ever see)] » 🌐
    @m@lgbtqia.space

    Does anyone have tips on how to sleep better with Elvanse (Vyvanse, Lisdexamfetamine)?

    I really have problems falling asleep with this stuff.

      [?]Lara » 🌐
      @lara_vm@mastodon.social

      Puh, ich komme gerade vom adhs Diagnostik Termin meiner Tochter und ich bin einfach nur fassungslos. "Nichts, was sich nicht mit Erziehung lösen lassen könnte" und wenn beide Eltern adhs haben seien wir ohnehin "total voreingenommen". Überhaupt sei adhs extrem überdiagnostiziert, weil das auf Insta und Co so viel Thema wäre. Die Kinder von heute konsumieren alle zu viel Medien und eine Diagnose wolle man doch nur, um die Verantwortung abgeben zu können. Wow.

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        [?]Beverley » 🌐
        @TalktoBeverley@mas.to

        I am sick to death of the , this morning , platforming people,who have no expertise in claiming it’s too easy to obtain benefits for conditions such as

        Richard Walker, Baron Walker of Broxton, Chairman of Iceland… yes, I’m sure in your spare time you’ve obtained qualifications that mean you’re an expert in the lived experience of the

        Opinions, emotions, political and economic ideologies… these are NOT facts.

        I wouldn’t care, but do you think that people in receipt of such benefits are living a life of luxury? Have you any idea of the difficulties encountered negotiating crumbling services? Do you live life on a tight budget with no room for manuevre, dreading unexpected expenses?

        It’s lazy thinking to blame the vulnerable for conditions they didn’t choose. What? Do you think these people should be ? Are they an inconvenient burden?

          [?]Greenseer (Dionne) 🩷🐇🏳️‍⚧️ [She/Her] » 🌐
          @Greenseer@toot.wales

          So you see, life with either means waiting for a meeting that you were ready for hours ago, afraid of doing anything useful with the spare time in case the deadline slips your mind altogether.. or missing a meeting because it did slip your mind altogether

          So here I am, waiting for my videocall, taking selfies aimlessly.. and taking the huge risk of posting about it here

          Okay.. I haven't forgotten.. the meeting is in 20 minutes. Laters! Love ya 💕 😘

          Me on the sofa. Selfie

          Alt...Me on the sofa. Selfie

            [?]Greenseer (Dionne) 🩷🐇🏳️‍⚧️ [She/Her] » 🌐
            @Greenseer@toot.wales

            So you see, life with either means waiting for a meeting that you were ready for hours ago, afraid of doing anything useful with the spare time in case the deadline slips your mind altogether.. or missing a meeting because it did slip your mind altogether

            So here I am, waiting for my videocall, taking selfies aimlessly.. and taking the huge risk of posting about it here

            Okay.. I haven't forgotten.. the meeting is in 20 minutes. Laters! Love ya 💕 😘

            Me on the sofa. Selfie

            Alt...Me on the sofa. Selfie

              [?]Valtteri O. » 🌐
              @valtterioll@mementomori.social

              Tänään otin Concerta 54mg ensimmäistä kertaa sitte vuoden 2023.

              Ihan vähän huolestuttaa etukäteen, kuinka "kivalta" se tuntuu kun vaikutus lakkaa, ku vanha annostus oli 54+36 ja sillä pärjäs ihan hyvin aamusta iltaan. 😅

              Otin lääkkeen klo 7 reikäleipä, ja nyt sitte seuraillaan kuinka kauan vaikutus kestää. 😂

              Ennen se oli 8 tuntia.

              Nälkä olis, mutta kun ei kolmeen vuoteen oo tehny mieli säännöllisesti aamupalaa, niin eihän mulla mitään aamupalatarvikkeita ollu... 🫩

                [?]lia :user_online: [she/they · sie/ihr oder es/deren/denen] » 🌐
                @lianna@micro.webgarden.click

                It's always such a crazy and frustrating moment when you finish reading some scientific literature on interesting psychological findings, e. g. the prevalence of rejection sensitivity in folks with ASD/ADHD comorbidity in relation to masking, and then remember that all of this is solely contained in some niche scientist subculture and will not hit actual doctors or therapists for decades.

                You're reading about, say, the comorbidity rates of Ehlers-Danlos syndrome, irritable gut syndrome and gender dysphoria, and research into whether gut flora might influence neurodivergency …

                … and then you go to a psychiatrist or a therapist and have to explain to a very smug middle-aged rich medical professional that autism actually exists in adults of all types and not just non-verbal teenage boys, that gender dysphoria is more than just being upset at your genitals in a binary way, and that some people with ADHD don't actually fidget and run around all the time.

                No medical professional I've seen had ever heard of something as basic as masking, and they all told me very condescendingly that something like masking can't exist because "you can't just turn off your own condition".

                "Neurodivergency" as a word prompts them to roll their eyes because they recognise it as a word used by "annoying woke people". They do not even know the difference between anxiety and nervousness and fear. They don't grasp the idea of believing two contradictory things at the same time while being aware of it. I've talked to doctors whose definition of autism consisted solely of "special interest, no social skills and general timidity" and who balked at the idea of simple concepts like sensory overload, rejection sensitivity or motor issues, all things they supposedly "never heard of" and "that don't have anything to do with autism".

                It seems like their expertise is solely focused on low-hanging fruit like burnout at work or mild seasonal depression.

                The contrast between what humanity technically knows and what the medical system knows in practice is so massive.

                #adhd #autism #autistic #actuallyAutistic #ableism

                  [?]Steven Saus [he/him] » 🌐
                  @StevenSaus@faithcollapsing.com

                  Resetting My Nervous System, One Hour At A Time

                  Including the actual playlist I use, so that you can too.

                  ideatrash.net/2026/10/resettin

                  Resetting My Nervous System, One Hour At A Time

                  Alt...Resetting My Nervous System, One Hour At A Time

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                    [?]Acey(she/her)🩷💜💙🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 [She when I'm femme/He when I'm masc/they any time] » 🌐
                    @aceofcosmicspace@lgbtqia.space

                    RE: lgbtqia.space/@aceofcosmicspac

                    My AuDHD brain: cake? snack? Ugh...okay more organising...Taylor Swift on TV. Yes. Taylor SWIFT on tv before more things. Bored. Taylor Swift!

                    Me: okay okay but we have to actually keep working so it's just on in the background, okay?

                    My AuDHD brain, bopping: "you better calm down..."

                    😂

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                    [?]Acey(she/her)🩷💜💙🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 [She when I'm femme/He when I'm masc/they any time] » 🌐
                    @aceofcosmicspace@lgbtqia.space

                    *Me, trying to organise some stuff in my bedroom*

                    My AuDHD brain: Bored! BORED! Want to stop and go watch documentaries instead.

                    Me: not NOW, brain. After the organising we can just relax and watch, okay?

                    *My AuDHD brain: ...........BORED!

                    😅😂

                        [?]Random Geek » 🌐
                        @randomgeek@masto.hackers.town

                        Pretty much all of these. Dunno which are and which are , but I DO know how it feels to be told "smile more."

                        One not listed here so maybe it's just me? Brain doing some heavy processing, for an extended period of time. Then what to normal human ears sounds like a deep sigh of terminal ennui.

                        Luckily @IamMrsGeek knows me well.

                        "Reminding yourself to breathe?"

                        "Yep. Sorry about that."

                        youtube.com/watch?v=m22XKtTdpr0

                          [?]Micr0byte [they/him] » 🌐
                          @micr0@wetdry.world

                          it's official peeps!! Cava Reader is coming to iOS!

                          remember when I said "coming soon TM??" up there... it's actually happening! a very kind friend gave me an Apple device so she could use Cava too 🥹 I'm aiming for early 2027, but knowing me it might land sooner lol

                          and some other news:

                          75 of you have installed it and 3 of you bought Full!! that genuinely made my week, thank you so much :D

                          v1.0.1 is out with bug fixes, plus a switch to turn off the anonymous usage stats without blocking the app's network access, so you keep the free library and language downloads

                          you can now buy Full with Monero (XMR), and it's 10% off since there's no payment processor taking a cut. that means you can get Cava with no Google and no bank card at all: APK + Obtainium, and pay in XMR

                          cavareader.app

                          happy to answer any questions!

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                            [?]Nat Oleander [they/them] » 🌐
                            @nat@lgbtqia.space

                            Overwhelm, burnout, and crushing guilt are not the right fuel for the revolution. Unfortunately, many activists slog through them day after day. (Many more folks won’t even consider themselves activists because they’re mired in this toxic sludge.)

                            I’m creating a planner for sustainable solidarity. It helps you create a realistic focus, narrowing your scope based on how it fits in the rest of your life, and acknowledging all the ways you make the world a better place—not just whatever you idolize as “real” activism. It’s built around rest, joy, and releasing guilt, while you attune your action to your energy and capacity.

                            Read more: buttondown.com/impureleftist/a

                            October 10, 2026
A free planner for activists is coming!
Plus: the 1st anniversary of Impure Leftist

Overwhelm, burnout, and crushing guilt are not the right fuel for the revolution. Unfortunately, many activists slog through them day after day. (Many more folks won’t even consider themselves activists because they’re mired in this toxic sludge.)

I’m creating a planner for sustainable solidarity. It helps you create a realistic focus, narrowing your scope based on how it fits in the rest of your life, and acknowledging all the ways you make the world a better place—not just whatever you idolize as “real” activism. It’s built around rest, joy, and releasing guilt, while you attune your action to your energy and capacity.

                            Alt...October 10, 2026 A free planner for activists is coming! Plus: the 1st anniversary of Impure Leftist Overwhelm, burnout, and crushing guilt are not the right fuel for the revolution. Unfortunately, many activists slog through them day after day. (Many more folks won’t even consider themselves activists because they’re mired in this toxic sludge.) I’m creating a planner for sustainable solidarity. It helps you create a realistic focus, narrowing your scope based on how it fits in the rest of your life, and acknowledging all the ways you make the world a better place—not just whatever you idolize as “real” activism. It’s built around rest, joy, and releasing guilt, while you attune your action to your energy and capacity.

                              [?]Emilis 🇺🇦 » 🌐
                              @emilis@social.linux.pizza

                              [?]Faintdreams » 🌐
                              @Faintdreams@dice.camp

                              I'm the kind of paranoid geek who travels with my wink ebook reader And ebooks on my phone And a paperback, because if the tech fails, the fall ack is good old Paper.*

                              [ Guess who hates not having reading material *And* music to listen to?
                              Me. The Answer is me. ]

                              -y

                                [?]Aaron :bc:🖖 » 🌐
                                @a@beige.party

                                Ok, I think this one is a stretch, but I have to ask.

                                Are you an / bald man in the northern hemisphere, who wears a hat indoors as the weather moves towards winter?

                                I know everyone is different, but pls, recommend a comfy, not too warm hat that my sensory sensitivities can cope with. I live in Scotland, so has to be something I can easily get here or online from a UK/ EU based retailer.
                                I don’t get on with stiff labels and seams and absolutely do not enjoy or use real wool at all.
                                lol 😂

                                @autistics thx! 🎩

                                  [?]Iza Running Again » 🌐
                                  @IzabelaKaramia@writing.exchange

                                  Are there any others who are the first in their family to be diagnosed as autistic or ADHD or AuDHD and now suspect that their siblings and parents are also probably neurodivergent, but that their siblings and parents are resistant to the idea that they themselves might also be neurodivergent?