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Search results for tag #adhd

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[?]citizen internet person™ » 🌐
@cphon@mas.to

Happy treasure season (finding lost things in your coat pockets from last winter) to all who celebrate

Downward-shot photo of my coat pocket, LED safety light and a $5 bill

Alt...Downward-shot photo of my coat pocket, LED safety light and a $5 bill

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    [?]Coffeedate with ADHD » 🌐
    @adhd_coffee@mastodon.social

    [?]The Autistic Innovator :pri: » 🌐
    @AutisticInnovator@autistics.life

    My BFF's phone conversations with me sometimes 😂

    It's always "you have ADHD" and never "thank you for telling me 14 stories in 3 minutes"

    Alt...It's always "you have ADHD" and never "thank you for telling me 14 stories in 3 minutes"

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      [?]Coffeedate with ADHD » 🌐
      @adhd_coffee@mastodon.social

      You call it ETA? I call it "challenge"!

      A social media post from Daniela Marinova (@spaceforcoaching_adhd) that reads: "Having ADHD is always believing you can beat Google Maps time."

      Alt...A social media post from Daniela Marinova (@spaceforcoaching_adhd) that reads: "Having ADHD is always believing you can beat Google Maps time."

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        [?]Coffeedate with ADHD » 🌐
        @adhd_coffee@mastodon.social

        There is no in-between.

        Social media post by @elliemidds: my problem is that if i put things away in cupboards i forget they exist but if i keep things out on display i get overwhelmed by clutter.

        Alt...Social media post by @elliemidds: my problem is that if i put things away in cupboards i forget they exist but if i keep things out on display i get overwhelmed by clutter.

          [?]JulieR » 🌐
          @abetterjulie@wandering.shop

          almost every night my husband has to be encouraged to go bed, despite him being Super Tired (as evidenced by him getting more argumentative and fussy). He doesn't realize how bad it is until he stands up, at which point he *does* realize, and yet the next night we do it all over again.

          is this an thing?

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            [?]Moriel 🏳️‍⚧️ » 🌐
            @moriel@chaosfem.tw

            I relate to this way too much for someone without ADHD. The part labeled "the other day" hits especially hard because it's something I have to constantly remind myself of when talking to people.

            Translating ADHD Time
by @adhdactually

The Other Day - Any timeframe between yesterday and a few months ago.

In A Minute, AKA "Just give me a second / one moment" - Any timeframe between 10 minutes and an hour.

Later, AKA "Not now" - The black hole of time where all things that are not done in the moment, disappear to.

            Alt...Translating ADHD Time by @adhdactually The Other Day - Any timeframe between yesterday and a few months ago. In A Minute, AKA "Just give me a second / one moment" - Any timeframe between 10 minutes and an hour. Later, AKA "Not now" - The black hole of time where all things that are not done in the moment, disappear to.

              [?]Jess👾 » 🌐
              @JessTheUnstill@infosec.exchange

              life is when you're both the mother and the child simultaneously.

              bsky.app/profile/davis.social/

              Meme mom in a car screaming at the backseat "WHY CANT YOU JUST BE NORMAL"
Kid in back seat screaming back "BECAUSE IM YOUR CHILD"

              Alt...Meme mom in a car screaming at the backseat "WHY CANT YOU JUST BE NORMAL" Kid in back seat screaming back "BECAUSE IM YOUR CHILD"

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                [?]Coffeedate with ADHD » 🌐
                @adhd_coffee@mastodon.social

                ADHD and negative self focus

                For many individuals with ADHD, the reality is more complex than just inattention. The opposite is often true: an extreme, poorly controlled fixation on distressing topics.

                We call this the Negative Self-Focus.

                Thread 🧵 👇

                A silohouette of a human head from the side. above it a lot of words spiraling in thorny mess around his head and adding cracks to the head.

                Alt...A silohouette of a human head from the side. above it a lot of words spiraling in thorny mess around his head and adding cracks to the head.

                  [?]Douglas Edwards :neurodiv: » 🌐
                  @dedicto@zeroes.ca

                  @autistics Since the end of the last off week of my 7-on-7-off work schedule, I've been reflecting on the responses to my theory that the essence of autism lies in the ABSENCE or INACTIVATION of the , a hypothesized complex neurological structure that neurotypicals use to engage with the physical and social environment. I think there may have been some misunderstanding of what I meant.

                  Now that I'm off again, I've continued with reading Russell 's "Taking Charge of Adult ADHD" (2nd ed., 2022). I'm currently in Chapter 9, "Executive Functions". His relentless neuronormativity continues to grate on my sensibilities — and his application of it to the concept of leads me to suspect that theorizing about , as well as autism, could benefit from introduction of the concept of the environmental yoke. Essentially, it seems to me that Barkley is conflating the very general, domain-independent concept of executive functions with the very specific perceptual and attentional biases built into the environmental yoke — and is compounding his error by assuming that those specific biases must necessarily render neurotypical executive function and engagement with the environment superior to their non-neurotypical counterparts.

                  zeroes.ca/@dedicto/11545710759

                    [?]Coffeedate with ADHD » 🌐
                    @adhd_coffee@mastodon.social

                    The thing....

                    Alt...Point of view of a man opening his laptop. In the laptop is a postit with the inscription "The Thing". Dad video glitches and suddenly you see that he is holding a. game controller. He goes back to the laptop and the video glitches again and he plays the piano. This comes back again and again.

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                      [?]Coffeedate with ADHD » 🌐
                      @adhd_coffee@mastodon.social

                      The thing

                      The image is a meme consisting of three panels arranged horizontally, all depicting a person in different poses and contexts. It is a popular meme showing Pablo Escobar from the tv show "Narcos" waiting at different places. 

The first panel shows the person indoors, leaning against a glass wall with a concerned expression, and a thought bubble above their head reads "I need to do the thing". 

The second panel shows the person standing indoors near a dark-colored table, looking downwards and slightly slumped, with a thought bubble reading "I'm gonna do the thing". 

The third panel shows the person standing outdoors on a patch of grass, walking forward with a determined expression and a thought bubble stating "Yup, any moment now...".

                      Alt...The image is a meme consisting of three panels arranged horizontally, all depicting a person in different poses and contexts. It is a popular meme showing Pablo Escobar from the tv show "Narcos" waiting at different places. The first panel shows the person indoors, leaning against a glass wall with a concerned expression, and a thought bubble above their head reads "I need to do the thing". The second panel shows the person standing indoors near a dark-colored table, looking downwards and slightly slumped, with a thought bubble reading "I'm gonna do the thing". The third panel shows the person standing outdoors on a patch of grass, walking forward with a determined expression and a thought bubble stating "Yup, any moment now...".

                        [?]BeelzeCrypt » 🌐
                        @BeelzeCrypt@social.anoxinon.de

                        ADHS ist eigentlich auch nur eine Version von Datenschutz 🛡️
                        Alles, was passiert, wird automatisch nach 5 Minuten gelöscht 😂

                          [?]uwuhaeckse » 🌐
                          @uwuhaeckse@infosec.exchange

                          Oh dexamphetamine, thief of joy, do I just hate you or do I hate having to take you to live in this oppressive world

                            [?]Aunty » 🌐
                            @AuntyRed@aus.social

                            When you can't check an item off your to-do list yet, but still want the dopamine hit, so you create a new sub item just to check it off.

                              [?]ZenHeathen :canada: » 🌐
                              @ZenHeathen@beige.party


                              Can The Assembly, which pairs neurodivergent interviewers with celebrities, get representation right?
                              cbc.ca/news/entertainment/the-

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                                [?]Coffeedate with ADHD » 🌐
                                @adhd_coffee@mastodon.social

                                Accurate representation