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[?]TelH90 » 🌐
@kkarhan@c.im

So no, there is no " epidemic" or some bs, but content is made to fry peoples' brains...

youtube.com/watch?v=Wor_gxgDOy

    [?]TelH90 » 🌐
    @kkarhan@c.im

    Like even the most person I know wants to sit down and just enjoy good content and not just have background noise...
    - Cuz that can be stimulating enough.

    But then again and others just want to have brainfried paypigs that never cancel their subscription so they can just pocket the subscription money...

    youtube.com/watch?v=UUGmKQ-S4o

      [?]Xavier Ashe :donor: » 🌐
      @Xavier@infosec.exchange

      Folks with ... what's your retry/failure rate when it comes to making tea? On average, how many times do you have reheat the water? Or number of mugs that went cold with the tea bag still in them.

      I love tea, but it's so hard to make for me!!

        [?]Nate [he/him/his] » 🌐
        @nolsen311@infosec.exchange

        RE: infosec.exchange/@tinker/11649

        ...any wonder I'm completely disenchanted with technology?

        Absolutely uninterested in GenAI.
        Can't stand what's happened to search.

        Feeling unmoored.

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        [?]Tinker ☀️ » 🌐
        @tinker@infosec.exchange

        We went from precise web search with boolean operators to "natural language models" of AI search.

        You can tell nuerodivergent, Autistic, ADHD, AuDHD, etc folks created the early internet...

        ...and you can tell that neurotypical folks are now leading the current overlays of the internet.

        We used to have very precise search mechanisms. Specific words found in web pages with boolean operators (AND, OR, NOT, etc) to filter out the web pages that contained specific words and did not contain other words.

        Now, we search for web sites (or don't even search for web sites, yay abstraction layers that separate us from actual raw information) using "natural language" to try and coax out info.

        Have you ever been frustrated when you use very precise and direct language to communicate a specific idea with someone who then takes those specific words and adds obscure meaning and connotations and personal fears and bias to what you said... thus completely misunderstanding you... only to then try and clarify what you said with more precise language only to have that further degrade the conversation?!

        Yeah. That's the internet with AI "search" now.

        They took something that worked precisely and directly and muddied it.

        We've introduced the "double-empathy problem" to web search.

        I'm noticing that everyone in my circles, family, and especially work that are nuerotypical LOVE LOVE LOVE the new AI search mechanisms. They'll tell me exactly what the answer they received was - regardless of whether it's right or has multiple possible and conflicting answers. They just repeat what the AI said like it was the Gospel Truth.

        And they love talking to it like it was a "real person."

        It certainly takes my search parameters and adds its own interpretation to which I have to clarify and correct which is then misinterpreted further...

        I haven't tried vibe coding, but I can only imagine the horror.

        Can you imagine vibe pentesting with Claude / Mythos?!?!?!

        You know how neurodivergent folks gravitated towards IT because it was precise?

        Yeah, that's gone now.

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            [?]Badass Britt :mastodon_lgbt: [She/Her] » 🌐
            @britt@mstdn.games

            I offer 20% off at my Etsy shop for all folks who find me through Mastodon. Code: MASTO20

            brittbuilds3d.etsy.com

            When you use the code, I'll also add a small extra fidget to your order as a thank you for your support. :gaming:

            You don't have to disclose who you are if you don't want to! :cat_cute: When I see the code on the order, I'll know how you found me. :ACNH_Love:

            Here are a few examples of the custom fidget toys I craft for my store:


            My business is Canadian :cangoose:, neurodiversity-friendly :autism_spectrum:, and owned by a queer, disabled human. :lgbtq_flag:

            Kickflip Skateboard magnetic fidget toy, available in a variety of designs. Pictured is a hand holding a sugar skull skateboard design in front of a grey shelf on a white background. The shelf is holding the kickflip case, a ‘RIP’ and ‘FLIP’ skull fidget with coffin case, Hibiscus skateboard and a circuits skateboard.

            Alt...Kickflip Skateboard magnetic fidget toy, available in a variety of designs. Pictured is a hand holding a sugar skull skateboard design in front of a grey shelf on a white background. The shelf is holding the kickflip case, a ‘RIP’ and ‘FLIP’ skull fidget with coffin case, Hibiscus skateboard and a circuits skateboard.

            Rainbow colours keyboard clicker fidget with 4 different textured tops for sensory input. You can choose your own clicker and colours. These designs were inspired by the translucent Apple computers of the 2000’s. 

Pictured: Rainbow coloured fidget with white case on a blue background with other colours displayed behind (purple, pink, yellow, orange, blue)

            Alt...Rainbow colours keyboard clicker fidget with 4 different textured tops for sensory input. You can choose your own clicker and colours. These designs were inspired by the translucent Apple computers of the 2000’s. Pictured: Rainbow coloured fidget with white case on a blue background with other colours displayed behind (purple, pink, yellow, orange, blue)

            3 in 1 Spiky stim roller. These have clicker tops (choose your clicker type), and a real ball bearing installed so the top spins. The texture is spiky and can be used as a ‘pain stim’ or for general sensory input. It’s printed to be weighted so it feels heavy in your hand for additional grounding support. 

pictured on a white background: various shades of rainbow with black and white custom printed emoji keycaps.

            Alt...3 in 1 Spiky stim roller. These have clicker tops (choose your clicker type), and a real ball bearing installed so the top spins. The texture is spiky and can be used as a ‘pain stim’ or for general sensory input. It’s printed to be weighted so it feels heavy in your hand for additional grounding support. pictured on a white background: various shades of rainbow with black and white custom printed emoji keycaps.

            Pictured: trim-colour (RGB) rainbow ‘Ace’ playing card magnetic fidget. Background is white with red, gold and silver in the background. 

Also available: King and Joker cards in the same colours.

            Alt...Pictured: trim-colour (RGB) rainbow ‘Ace’ playing card magnetic fidget. Background is white with red, gold and silver in the background. Also available: King and Joker cards in the same colours.

              [?]Sebastian » 🌐
              @sherold@mastodon.online

              Context switching galore, your hypercurious mind is drawn to even the smallest details, your attention is all over the place, with too many mental tabs open.
              Everything, everywhere, and all at once.

              What's your go-to method for recalibrating yourself and getting out of this loop?

                [?]Dima » 🌐
                @dima@dol.social

                The worst part isn't even the burnout.
                It’s the hope.

                Every single time I genuinely believe "this one will stick". I buy the paid plan, I migrate all my data, I make it look nice. I feel like a new person.

                Then the novelty dies. The dopamine disappears. And I'm left with another half-finished system I now feel guilty about abandoning.

                I don’t even know how many tools I’m currently “using”. Probably 8–10.
                Tasks in 3 places, notes in other 5 systems, files somewhere else.

                I spend more time looking for things than actually doing them.

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                  [?]Dean Kirkman » 🌐
                  @deankirkman@mastodon.social

                  'Caffeine and Coping.' I need that mug.

                  (Credit: facebook.com/photo/?fbid=12211 )

                  Infographic titled AuDHD illustrating the mental struggle of living with both. Shows a person in a hoodie at a desk, caught between the autistic need for routine and the ADHD drive for novelty. Lists traits for each and makes the point that trying to handle these opposite needs at once just leads to total burnout.

                  Alt...Infographic titled AuDHD illustrating the mental struggle of living with both. Shows a person in a hoodie at a desk, caught between the autistic need for routine and the ADHD drive for novelty. Lists traits for each and makes the point that trying to handle these opposite needs at once just leads to total burnout.

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                    [?]Tinker ☀️ » 🌐
                    @tinker@infosec.exchange

                    We went from precise web search with boolean operators to "natural language models" of AI search.

                    You can tell nuerodivergent, Autistic, ADHD, AuDHD, etc folks created the early internet...

                    ...and you can tell that neurotypical folks are now leading the current overlays of the internet.

                    We used to have very precise search mechanisms. Specific words found in web pages with boolean operators (AND, OR, NOT, etc) to filter out the web pages that contained specific words and did not contain other words.

                    Now, we search for web sites (or don't even search for web sites, yay abstraction layers that separate us from actual raw information) using "natural language" to try and coax out info.

                    Have you ever been frustrated when you use very precise and direct language to communicate a specific idea with someone who then takes those specific words and adds obscure meaning and connotations and personal fears and bias to what you said... thus completely misunderstanding you... only to then try and clarify what you said with more precise language only to have that further degrade the conversation?!

                    Yeah. That's the internet with AI "search" now.

                    They took something that worked precisely and directly and muddied it.

                    We've introduced the "double-empathy problem" to web search.

                    I'm noticing that everyone in my circles, family, and especially work that are nuerotypical LOVE LOVE LOVE the new AI search mechanisms. They'll tell me exactly what the answer they received was - regardless of whether it's right or has multiple possible and conflicting answers. They just repeat what the AI said like it was the Gospel Truth.

                    And they love talking to it like it was a "real person."

                    It certainly takes my search parameters and adds its own interpretation to which I have to clarify and correct which is then misinterpreted further...

                    I haven't tried vibe coding, but I can only imagine the horror.

                    Can you imagine vibe pentesting with Claude / Mythos?!?!?!

                    You know how neurodivergent folks gravitated towards IT because it was precise?

                    Yeah, that's gone now.

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                      [?]Coffeedate with ADHD » 🌐
                      @adhd_coffee@mastodon.social

                      Seriously, I don't understand highlighting

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                        [?]💞Pinky💞 [she/pink/pika] » 🌐
                        @fatiguedcherry@lgbtqia.space

                        hey y'all :BhjFlag_Ace: :BhjFlag_Nonbinary: :BhjFlag_Bisexual: :BhjFlag_Genderqueer: :BhjFlag_Autism: :BhjFlag_Progress_Intersex_Right: :neodog_flag_demigirl:

                        i'm Pinky!! i'm 27 y/o, and a hopeless fangirl of quite a few things, haha. i'm also an abstract artist w a shop on ko-fi!!

                        here's my linktree: linktr.ee/tiredpinklover

                        if ya happen to like...

                        🐀

                        ⛏️
                        ♡ video games 🎮
                        ♡ anything pink and girly/cute 🎀
                        and 🐾
                        (especially fiction & ) 📖

                        (possibly more to be added)

                        ...u should consider following me 💞😊

                        it's great to be here!! :Blobhaj_Heart_Rainbow:

                          [?]Strfnurfn » 🌐
                          @earthtoneone@mstdn.social

                          is a great hobby for if you enjoy solving little mysteries, like "Where did I lose the needle THIS time?"

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                            [?]Coffeedate with ADHD » 🌐
                            @adhd_coffee@mastodon.social

                            Found a life hack: Adjusting expectations

                              [?]Jeff Gibbard :verify: » 🌐
                              @JGibbard@c.im

                              Hot take: PARA is a great concept with a hierarchy problem. And for autistic and ADHD brains, that problem is not minor. It is the reason most people abandon their Notion setup entirely.

                              Episode 2 of the SuperBrain series covers why I replaced PARA and what I built instead: a system designed specifically for the way neurodivergent brains actually work.

                              Watch here: bit.ly/48YjcY8

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                                [?]Coffeedate with ADHD » 🌐
                                @adhd_coffee@mastodon.social

                                That moment when your screenshot folder becomes the Ark of the Covenant warehouse 🗄️

                                  [?]Evan Genest » 🌐
                                  @mistergenest@c.im

                                  “We called ourself a Do-a racy: if somebody has an idea about what should happen, that's great. Are you willing to do it?

                                  “Because anybody can have an idea. I have a thousand ideas a day.
                                  But if you actually connect with your community, you're willing to set up the meeting, reserve the room, get the pizza, do the recruitment, run the agenda, do the follow-up, that’s what it looks like to actually build power”

                                  From What's The Plan? with Leah Greenberg and Ezra Levin: How to Stop American Concentration Camps, Apr 24, 2026
                                  podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/

                                    [?]Rook 🏳️‍⚧️ [She/Her] » 🌐
                                    @darkfox@tech.lgbt

                                    Hi, I’m Rook. I’m a 30-something nerdy vixen.

                                    I’ve been doing , , and stuff since I was a kit, and I'm still loving it.

                                    Currently, I am recovering from and dealing with multiple .

                                    Previously, I worked with complex and systems in , doing a mix of , , and .

                                    At home, I’m constantly tinkering with projects using , building my own , and battling my hardware.

                                    I also enjoy running around as a big, silly in the fandom.

                                    I’m , , and . I’m a proud member of the community,

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                                      [?]Coffeedate with ADHD » 🌐
                                      @adhd_coffee@mastodon.social

                                      My workflow in one diagram 📊

                                        [?]Forse (he/him) » 🌐
                                        @forse@kolektiva.social

                                        I recently discovered that I might have ADHD.

                                        Among other disruptions of my "reward system", I struggle to find activities and people I like.
                                        The consequence is loneliness and isolation.

                                        I used to think that this was anhedonia that coming along with my chronic depression, but I wonder if ADHD wouldn't be a better explanation?

                                        Are there any other people with ADHD that have had similar experiences?
                                        How did you overcome it?

                                        Boosts welcome. <3



                                          [?]Badass Britt :mastodon_lgbt: [She/Her] » 🌐
                                          @britt@mstdn.games

                                          *opens microwave*


                                          I… do not remember popping that bag of popcorn. 🍿🫠😆

                                          Life.

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                                            [?]Coffeedate with ADHD » 🌐
                                            @adhd_coffee@mastodon.social

                                            And how was yout weekend? 🧠

                                              [?]Faintdreams » 🌐
                                              @Faintdreams@dice.camp

                                              Overnight Android software update has subtly changed all the Fonts on my phone.

                                              :: silent screaming ::

                                                [?]For Pete's Sake 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 🏳️‍🌈 » 🌐
                                                @PeteLittle@autistics.life

                                                Actually it's not my Palm Vx (I just found it in another box) it's my Palm m505 I initially found.

                                                And although my Vx and Ipaq seem quite dead.. a quick charge and it's still working XD

                                                So, rather than tidying, im messing around with old tech. Talk about self distraction!!

                                                A Palm m505 (colour) pda in my left hand.

Partially cleared chaos on the desk in background

                                                Alt...A Palm m505 (colour) pda in my left hand. Partially cleared chaos on the desk in background

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                                                  [?]Hiisikoloart » 🌐
                                                  @hiisikoloart@writing.exchange

                                                  My brain has been brimming with writing ideas but I don't have any time to do any actual writing. (=_=) This feels like torture.

                                                  Must...finish...the comic book stuff.
                                                  And work on a commission.
                                                  *AGRESSIVELY IGNORES THE NEED TO WRITE*

                                                  Sidenote: This doesn't mean that I hate the other things I must and want to do. This just means I need to fight hyperfocus, and it sucks.

                                                    [?]Owl Eyes » 🌐
                                                    @d1@autistics.life

                                                    @autistics
                                                    Announcement: multiplayer casual game today (Sat) for 4 hours in the late afternoon to evening (North America). That's in about 8 hours from now.

                                                    Voxelibre is a free and clone. More details here:
                                                    docs.autis.toque.im/

                                                    Damage has been turned off. People with , or are invited.

                                                      [?]For Pete's Sake 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 🏳️‍🌈 » 🌐
                                                      @PeteLittle@autistics.life

                                                      I was tidying up my office today. style.

                                                      I take everything off the shelves, sort into piles all over every surface, cover the floor, trip over things going in and out, get overwhelmed at the mess, wait for my impulsive side to give way to my side. Take piles of like items, all DVD's, all CD's etc, store them in boxes, move boxes to logical locations (Tools in workshop, dvd/blu rays down by media player, craft stuff to craft room etc) put books back on shelf in order.. or at least attempt to as ADHD side gains dominance again and books end up on shelf "Where they'll fit!" Meaning math books next to Pratchett next to History next to bike maintenance next to cookbooks next to Lovecraft next to... ... you get the image XD

                                                      Desk is still covered, books everywhere, given up for today.

                                                        [?]your auntifa liza 🇵🇷 🦛 🦦 » 🌐
                                                        @blogdiva@mastodon.social

                                                        SO IT'S Awareness Month?

                                                        since am one of those people Dx at the tender age of 50 (yes, 50. and yes am older now, shut up), am not acquainted with the american rituals of national days or awareness months involving autism.

                                                        welp, let me do this as a gentle reminder:

                                                        1. BLACK
                                                        2. INDIGENOUS
                                                        3. PUERTO RICAN
                                                        4. CARIBBEAN
                                                        5. LATINOAMERICANES
                                                        6. WOMEN

                                                        can be too.

                                                        and in my case: with a sprinkling of good ol' extra spicy .

                                                        but ironically, 🧵

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                                                          [?]Coffeedate with ADHD » 🌐
                                                          @adhd_coffee@mastodon.social

                                                          Me: "I am so tired; I'll go to bed early."
                                                          Me, 2 a.m.: "Damn."

                                                          A screenshot of a tweet from Dadak Bihi states "Neurodivergents will be like "I'm so tired" and then refuse to sleep because they haven't had enough me time after surviving the day."

                                                          Alt...A screenshot of a tweet from Dadak Bihi states "Neurodivergents will be like "I'm so tired" and then refuse to sleep because they haven't had enough me time after surviving the day."